If you’re feeling “stuck,” you’ve come to the right place. It’s important to remember that even the dullest seasons play starring roles in the beautiful big picture, for we can only appreciate the periods of heightened celebration to the degree that we have encountered its opposite.
So, if you’ve been feeling like a failure, uninspired, “in a funk,” or bored out of your mind, approach it as an opportunity to more richly experience what is on its way. No one can pull you out of that ditch; only you can. And, if you’re here, it means it is time to begin.
Your Magic Begins In the Realm of 30 Days…
Research has revealed that it takes approximately 30 days for one’s brain to cultivate a new habit or mindset. One of my favorites stories is in regard to a NASA experiment conducted during the space program’s early days.
NASA wanted to prepare their astronauts for the great unknown by acquainting them with the unfamiliar. In order to facilitate this, each astronaut was required to wear a pair of goggles which flipped their vision upside down. They were to wear the goggles 24 hours a day – with zero breaks. Initially, many of the astronauts whined and shouted physical and emotional distress from the experiment. However, over time, each began to rest cozily into their new perceptions.
The scientists conducting the experiment found that if the astronauts could tolerate the discomfort for at least 26-30 days without any period of rest from the experiment, each person’s brain began to create new neural pathways which “reconfigured” their brains to seeing the world normally again. Their brains actually learned to “flip” the world back into place. How fascinating is that?
Below is a list of 41 ideas, created to unlock the gate which has confined you to your rut – each inspiring you to “play” your way out of there. Please get inventive and form your own.
The idea is to “break up” the mundane and introduce new ideas into your life which will help you dig yourself out of whatever creative, financial, emotional or physical ditch you are in.
I dare you to release whatever is stale and old, and to give birth to something new. Sometimes we become hostages to an idea, season or relationship which has reached completion. It may have once been wonderful or awful, but – either way – no longer serves any purpose. What once served you may now be like the leftovers sitting in the back of the fridge, taking up space and gagging you with its awful stench.
Know this: If you’re feeling stuck, you aren’t. You’ve just got to recover your wonderment, and then play your way out of your shadowed hole. You find your wings when you let yourself play.
1. Clip a hilarious comic from a magazine or newspaper and stick it to your bathroom mirror.
2. Find a time in history which interests you, and immerse yourself into it fully. Explore books, fashion, dialect, films, documentaries, and music in celebration of the era.
3. Some foods are nurturing to our bodies, while some are nurturing to our souls. Spend an afternoon or evening preparing a favorite dish from your childhood. Make sure it is something which will evoke soul-stirring and joyful memories.
4. Write down three things you desire greatly. Find three pennies, dress yourself in your favorite outfit and find a fountain.
5. Buy new towels or bed linens in bright colors. No beige, cream, tan or khaki allowed.
6. Find the most cluttered room or area of your home and, corner-by-corner, patiently unravel its clutter.
7. Watch a thought-provoking, tear-jerking documentary that has absolutely nothing to do with any aspect of your current life.
8. Donate blood and light a candle in honor of whoever’s life you may have helped save.
9. Visit a local comedy club’s amateur hour.
10. Find a festival outside of your cultural norm, and attend it. I once attended a Native American festival, and it inspired an essay which earned me praise from a college professor I immensely respected. More importantly, though, it refueled my excitement for writing.
11. Make a list of your five greatest life accomplishments. It doesn’t matter if your victories are winning the state championship, completing your doctorate, learning to juggle or surviving middle school gym class. Just list whatever provokes you to beam for a moment with gratitude, pride and – perhaps! – relief. You’re a survivor, baby.
12. Spend an hour on Google Earth exploring famous landmarks and buildings you haven’t given much thought to – perhaps since your last high school field trip.
13. Rearrange your living room. Perhaps you should change the curtains, too.
14. Make a list of five people, living or dead, who cause your mind to swell with inspiration each time their face or name passes through it. Write down why you are inspired by them.
15. Choose a city you’ve longed to visit but never have. Create a Pinterest board devoted entirely to celebration of that city and, perhaps, begin planning your trip there.
16. Buy yourself a pair of socks that give you that “aah” feeling.
17. Invent a new beverage or cocktail. Get creative with it, and name it after a song, person or memory which makes you smile.
18. Buy a puzzle and devote an entire evening to mastering the silly thing.
19. Write a handwritten and delicately-crafted letter to your most beloved family member; living or dead.
20. Find a cozy coffee shop and eavesdrop on others while sipping your latte.
21. Warmly permit that visibly stressed-out person to pull out in front of you in traffic. Smile at them.
22. Leave out some bread for the birds.
23. Watch a TED Talk given by a person you are unfamiliar with.
24. You know thing in your home which chronically annoys you? The squeaky door, the loose henge, the “janky” drawer, the dishwasher that hardly works, the filthy coffee pot? Fix it.
25. Take a stroll through your local hiking trail. Collect the most beautiful and unique leaves.
26. Conduct your own evening of pampering, ensuring to eliminate all possible disruptions. Be sure to involve your favorite scented candles, incense, champagne, and chocolate truffles.
27. Consider the greatest stressor in your current life. Make a list of five people who have triumphantly recovered from something far worse.
28. Think of a person you are at odds with but wish to no longer be. Speak to them in your mind, apologizing and making amends until you feel the animosity “release.”
29. Find a quote that inspires you, and have it printed on a coffee mug in your favorite color.
30. Read an article on a subject you are passionate about, but written by someone with a viewpoint contradictory to your own. Have an open mind with no emotional attachment, simply digesting the author’s perspective with no pressure to change your opinion.
31. Go to that restaurant where you quit looking at the menu long ago because you always order the same thing anyway. Grab the menu and order an item you’ve never paid attention to.
32. Pop some popcorn. Take a moment to relish the sounds and the smell before you enjoy the taste.
33. Try a weird flavor of gelato.
34. Plant something. Document its growth.
35. Embark on a day road trip. Get all of your favorite snacks and music, and make sure you have plenty of space on your camera. Take pictures of anything that inspires you along the way.
36. Visit an international market and try three foods you have never heard of. Even consider the ones which make your head jerk and your nose scrunch.
37. Visit your local florist and hand pick each flower to design a bouquet to display for no one’s pleasure but your own.
38. Play a harmless prank on a friend or co-worker (who also happens to be a good sport).
39. Bake something and gift it to a local charity, shelter or neighbor.
40. Spend an afternoon driving and dreaming through neighborhoods of houses you cannot afford, but imagine as your home in an alternate universe or another life.
41. Read a local newspaper, page by page, from a city you’ve never been to.
©TheDailyDoll.com / Lacey Johnson 2015
If you enjoyed this article, you may also enjoy Don’t Drink the Poison and 12 Creative Ways to Nourish Your Mind, Body & Spirit. Also, stay tuned for my upcoming e-book: “The 21-Day Inner Life Illumination Reboot,” coming April 2017.